Rebuild Your Marriage with Faith-Based Counseling
Christian Marriage Counseling integrates proven therapeutic techniques with faith-centered guidance, helping couples rebuild their bond through God’s love and grace.
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Does Your Marriage Need Christian Counseling?
Does it feel like life’s demands are pulling you and your spouse apart?
Does reconnecting with your partner can seem impossible?
Christian Marriage Counseling offers a faith-centered path to healing and strengthening your relationship
Start today with a free 30-minute consultation
Easy Scheduling
Choose the time that best works for you and I'll call you at that time. Simple as that!
No Cost. No Commitment. No Catch.
This call allows us to get to know each other.
No cost and no commitment required.
Be Seen within 24 hours
We can often accommodate emergency services and see you within 24 hours!
How Christian Marriage Counseling Can Help
Marriage is a sacred commitment, but life’s demands can strain even the strongest relationships. Christian Marriage Counseling offers a faith-centered approach to heal and strengthen your bond by placing God at the center of your journey.
A Personalized, Faith-Based Approach
Every couple’s journey is unique. I work with you to uncover the root causes of conflict and help you find solutions tailored to your relationship. Whether you’re facing a significant challenge or simply looking to strengthen your bond, Christian Marriage Counseling offers a compassionate and faith-guided path forward.
Practical Tools for Everyday Challenges
Together, we’ll address common struggles with faith-based solutions, including:
- Improving Communication: Learn to express your needs and listen with empathy.
- Conflict Resolution: Resolve disagreements with love and understanding.
- Rebuilding Trust: Heal past wounds and restore emotional intimacy.
About Me
Kathleen Wenger,
M.A., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Certifications and Experience
- Over 20 years as a private practitioner specializing in Christian Marriage Counseling
- Co-founder of MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com
- President, The National Honor Society in Psychology (Psi Chi Pepperdine Chapter)
- Straus Institute of Family Mediation Certificate
- Orange County Adoption Clinical Training Certificate
Faith-Centered Guidance from a Trusted Marriage Counselor
For over 20 years, I have walked alongside couples, individuals, and families as they navigate life’s challenges. My passion lies in helping couples restore the trust, love, and respect that form the foundation of a streong marriage. I believe every relationship has the potential for renewal, even in the face of adversity.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I integrate my extensive clinical experience with a compassionate, faith-based approach. Whether you’re looking to rebuild trust, deepen emotional intimacy, or overcome obstacles together, I create a supportive space where you can work toward a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
My Journey
I began my career at Pepperdine University, managing the clinical training of future Marriage and Family Therapists. My work as a teacher, clinical supervisor, and private practitioner has allowed me to help others build stronger, healthier relationships. Along the way, I’ve developed specialties in couples counseling, adoption issues, and supporting individuals facing anxiety and depression.
Faith, Family, and Compassion
My own faith plays a central role in my work. I believe that God’s love provides a source of strength for couples as they navigate life’s struggles. It is an honor to witness the transformation that happens when couples place their trust in Him and commit to the process of healing.
GET STARTED TODAY
Book a Free 20 Minute "Get to Know Us" Call
Easy Scheduling
Choose the time that best works for you and I'll call you at that time. Simple as that!
Free 20-Minute Call
This call allows us to get to know each other.
No cost and no commitment required.
Be Seen within 24 hours
We can often accommodate emergency services and see you within 24 hours!
Frequently Ask Questions
What if my partner doesn’t want to attend counseling?
It’s common for one partner to feel hesitant about starting counseling, especially after an affair. The good news is that both partners don’t need to attend the first session—or even counseling in general—for it to be effective.
In the free 30-minute consultation, I can meet with just you to discuss your concerns, explore your relationship’s dynamics, and create a plan for moving forward. Many times, when one partner starts the healing process, it inspires the other to join in later.
Remember, taking the first step on your own can still lead to meaningful change for your relationship. This journey begins with you, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Do you offer tele-therapy?
Yes, I offer tele-therapy sessions for couples located in California. This allows us to meet from the comfort of your home while still providing the same compassionate, faith-centered support.
Do I really need therapy? I can usually handle my problems.
Everyone goes through challenging situations in life, and while you may have successfully navigated through other difficulties you've faced, there's nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. In fact, therapy is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand, and that is something to be admired. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you're at in life and making a commitment to change the situation by seeking therapy. Therapy provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges you face.
Why do people go to therapy and how do I know if it is right for me?
People have many different motivations for coming to psychotherapy. Some may be going through a major life transition (unemployment, divorce, new job, etc.), or are not handling stressful circumstances well. Some people need assistance managing a range of other issues such as low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, spiritual conflicts and creative blocks. Therapy can help provide some much needed encouragement and help with skills to get them through these periods. Others may be at a point where they are ready to learn more about themselves or want to be more effective with their goals in life. In short, people seeking psychotherapy are ready to meet the challenges in their lives and ready to make changes in their lives.
What is therapy like?
Because each person has different issues and goals for therapy, therapy will be different depending on the individual. In general, you can expect to discuss the current events happening in your life, your personal history relevant to your issue, and report progress (or any new insights gained) from the previous therapy session. Depending on your specific needs, therapy can be short-term, for a specific issue, or longer-term, to deal with more difficult patterns or your desire for more personal development. Either way, it is most common to schedule regular sessions with your therapist (usually weekly).
It is important to understand that you will get more results from therapy if you actively participate in the process. The ultimate purpose of therapy is to help you bring what you learn in session back into your life. Therefore, beyond the work you do in therapy sessions, your therapist may suggest some things you can do outside of therapy to support your process - such as reading a pertinent book, journaling on specific topics, noting particular behaviors or taking action on your goals. People seeking psychotherapy are ready to make positive changes in their lives, are open to new perspectives and take responsibility for their lives.
What about medication vs. psychotherapy?
It is well established that the long-term solution to mental and emotional problems and the pain they cause cannot be solved solely by medication. Instead of just treating the symptom, therapy addresses the cause of our distress and the behavior patterns that curb our progress. You can best achieve sustainable growth and a greater sense of well-being with an integrative approach to wellness. Working with your medical doctor you can determine what's best for you, and in some cases a combination of medication and therapy is the right course of action.
Do you take insurance, and how does that work?
To determine if you have mental health coverage through your insurance carrier, the first thing you should do is call them. Check your coverage carefully and make sure you understand their answers. Some helpful questions you can ask them:
- What are my mental health benefits?
- What is the coverage amount per therapy session?
- How many therapy sessions does my plan cover?
- How much does my insurance pay for an out-of-network provider?
- Is approval required from my primary care physician?
Does what we talk about in therapy remain confidential?
Confidentiality is one of the most important components between a client and psychotherapist. Successful therapy requires a high degree of trust with highly sensitive subject matter that is usually not discussed anywhere but the therapist's office. Every therapist should provide a written copy of their confidential disclosure agreement, and you can expect that what you discuss in session will not be shared with anyone. This is called “Informed Consent”. Sometimes, however, you may want your therapist to share information or give an update to someone on your healthcare team (you’re your Physician, Naturopath, Attorney), but by law your therapist cannot release this information without obtaining your written permission.
However, state law and professional ethics require therapists to maintain confidentiality except for the following situations:
- Suspected past or present abuse or neglect of children, adults, and elders to the authorities, including Child Protection and law enforcement, based on information provided by the client or collateral sources.
- If the therapist has reason to suspect the client is seriously in danger of harming him/herself or has threatened to harm another person.
I am in need of counseling ASAP. How quickly can I be seen?
We understand that sometimes, the need for counseling can feel urgent. At Orange County Couples Counseling, we prioritize your emotional well-being and mental health. We strive to accommodate emergency counseling services as quickly as possible, and you can generally expect to be seen within 24 hours. Our team of highly trained and compassionate counselors is dedicated to providing the care you need in a timely manner. Please note that the actual scheduling may depend on individual counselor availability. Rest assured, we will do our best to provide you the support you need exactly when you need it. If you're facing an immediate crisis, please don't hesitate to reach out to us or use the resources available to you, such as hotlines or local emergency services. Your safety and mental health are our top priority.